MICKAEL BEL on the "FANM NAN JAZ SE PWAZON" MYTH!
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KOMPA MAGAZINE: Many musicians say that WOMEN IN BANDS...Se PWAZON, and others have even said that women CAN'T work together in a band because they are DRAMA QUEENS. We thought for sure that your group"BEL" was going to end all of that talk. It was not done. Did you prove the naysayers RIGHT?
MICKAEL: "Pwazon is a very harsh way to say it.
BEL was my baby. I put all I had into it, and I'm so thankful it was well received. With that, I think we proved women can work together; even for if it's for a short time. lol
We are emotional creatures. We are built differently than men. We feel more. Our passion comes from a different place. Life comes through us, so our emotional depth runs even deeper. We are intuitive beings; a different kind of hardwiring than men. So, we're more expressive when we feel, and we react to things more intensely, and that comes off as drama.
Also, Pat, there are layers as to why it's harder for women. Groups are built by the industry with audience favorites in mind, so when you have people saying to each person in the group that they are better. In general that how that works; perpetually pitting group members against each other.
Women are used to being compared, so you have to be mentally, physically, and spiritually unfazed to come as one and avoid the divide and conquer strategy.
The HMI hasn't seen a lot of women so it makes it that much more competitive creating breeding room for emotions we touched on earlier of the unsavory sort; jealously, envy, etc. And you can imagine the intensity of these emotions coming from the birthers and nurturers of the world. But I will never give up on females coming together for a greater good.
So with BEL, the answer is yes and No."
KM!
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